I have never, ever heard the word 'lover' used in a serious context. It's always Austin Powers-like - helloooo lovah!
That is *exactly* the same problem I have too; everytime I see it I crack up. Not only that, it just seems the wrong word to use, but I can never think of an alternative to suggest.
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That is *exactly* the same problem I have too; everytime I see it I crack up. Not only that, it just seems the wrong word to use, but I can never think of an alternative to suggest.